Sacred Chaos

When Life Feels Chaotic and Out of Your Control

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The life you planned has shifted, and it feels overwhelming right now. You are not alone.

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Many people find themselves navigating similar moments of disruption at the same time, even

though the details of their lives look very different.

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You may feel disoriented by circumstances that arrived without your consent. Career changes.

Relationship loss. Health diagnoses. Family upheaval. Moments that quietly rearrange everything

you thought you knew.

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I understand this terrain well.

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I have lived through financial calamity, unexpected career shifts, loss of love and loved ones,

health challenges, family turmoil, and betrayal. I carry these experiences with me not as stories,

but as lived understanding.

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What I have learned is this.

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Chaos does not have to feel punishing or arbitrary. When people begin to recognize that chaos

follows recognizable patterns, it often brings a sense of relief and stability that is hard to access

in isolation. But it does require orientation so that you are not merely being tossed about by

whatever storm you face, but moving purposefully toward clarity, stability, and a future that

makes sense again, even if you cannot see it clearly today. And you don’t have to do this alone.

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The nature of chaos is, well, chaotic. Each circumstance I have encountered may look different

and often quite messy on the surface. Yet time and time again, I have noticed a consistent

rhythm and cadence beneath the upheaval, one that made it possible to understand what was

happening and how to move forward. I have seen this rhythm emerge across many individuals,

each facing different circumstances yet moving through remarkably similar stages of transition.

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When we do not understand what we are moving through, the experience becomes exhausting and sometimes terrifying. Simply realizing that these reactions are common and understandable can soften the sense of isolation that often accompanies major life change. When we do, it becomes navigable. Not easy, but meaningful, clarifying, and ultimately soul strengthening and life stabilizing.

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Over time, I began mapping the stages of chaos and the specific tools that reliably reduce the impact, restore orientation, and clear a path forward. As people explore these stages together, they often recognize themselves in different parts of the process and gain insight that would be difficult to reach alone.

I’m Del Ray Zimmerman.

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For decades, my work has centered on helping people navigate complexity and confusion with dignity and clarity. I have built programs to expand healthcare access for LGBTQ+ communities, supported people with disabilities in living more independent lives, and strengthened volunteer initiatives that address fundamental human needs.

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Across all of this work, one truth became unmistakable. People do not need to be fixed.
 

They need a way to understand what is happening to them and the right tools to prepare them for the journey ahead.

That insight led me to create the Sacred Chaos Method™. 

 

What Is the Sacred Chaos Method™

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The Sacred Chaos Method™ is a simple, repeatable framework designed to help you navigate life’s unexpected

changes without losing yourself to overwhelm, self doubt, or emotional exhaustion.

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When life becomes emotionally intense, most people try to push through or pretend everything is fine.

Others get pulled into the undertow of worry, fear, or self judgment, which often keeps them stuck longer

than necessary. Shared language has a way of restoring orientation, especially when you hear others

articulate experiences you have not yet found words for yourself.

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This method offers another way.

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It provides guardrails, language, and perspective so you can understand what you are experiencing

and respond with intention instead of being consumed by it.

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With the Sacred Chaos Method™, you learn how to:

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• Steady your nervous system during periods of stress or upheaval
   

• Regain trust in yourself when certainty is no longer available
   

• Make aligned decisions even when the path forward is unclear
   

This is not about bypassing emotion or forcing calm. It is about building the capacity to stay present, grounded, and oriented while you feel what you feel and find your way back into the flow of life.

 

What the Sacred Chaos Method™ Helps You Do

 

With this method, you will learn how to:

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• Stay calmer and more grounded during stress, change, or emotional upheaval
   

• Navigate chaos with a clear map so you stop forcing solutions that do not fit your situation
   

• Quiet mental noise and reconnect with your inner wisdom
   

• Make confident decisions without needing all the answers first
   

• Move forward with purpose instead of fear, urgency, or burnout
   

When you understand where you are in the process, you stop turning against yourself. You stop mistaking

intensity for failure. You begin navigating with greater hope, forgiveness, trust, and self-respect. There is

something quietly reassuring about seeing that others are moving through different stages of the same

unfolding journey.

 

How It Works

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The Sacred Chaos Method™ guides you through seven clear stages that most people experience during

major life transitions.

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Each stage helps you understand what you are feeling and what will actually support you right now. This

prevents unnecessary second guessing and self-judgment, which often prolong suffering.

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Rather than trying to fix your life or rush toward resolution, you learn how to:

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• Work with change instead of fighting it
   

• Respond thoughtfully instead of reacting emotionally
   

• Access steadiness without waiting for everything to settle
   

This is a process you can return to anytime life shifts, whether the change is large or subtle. As this method is used, calm and clarity become accessible more quickly, even in the midst of change, opening the door to life circumstances that are richer and more meaningful than you may be able to imagine right now.

 

The Result

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Instead of feeling overwhelmed or stuck, you will feel:

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• Emotionally steady and inwardly oriented even when circumstances remain uncertain
   

• Clear about your next steps
   

• Confident in your decisions
   

• More focused on what is emerging than what has shifted
   

• Reconnected to who you are beneath the noise
   

• Genuinely hopeful and energized about what is next for you
   

You do not need your life to calm down before you feel calm. You need a proven way to stay

oriented while life is changing. I found mine. And it gives me great joy to share my map with you.

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Group Structure

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This work is offered as a live, guided group experience over twelve weeks. You will move through

the Sacred Chaos Method™ alongside a small group of individuals navigating their own life

transitions, meeting regularly in a structured and professionally held setting. Teaching, reflection,

and practical application are led by me, with opportunities to listen, observe, and participate at

your own level of comfort. The group is designed to provide clarity, perspective, and shared

understanding while preserving privacy, autonomy, and personal boundaries throughout the

process.

 

What Your Enrollment Includes

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Your enrollment includes the full Sacred Chaos Method™ experience, delivered in a structured and professionally guided group setting.

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• Twelve live facilitated sessions led by Del Ray

• The Sacred Chaos Method™ workbook

• Guided integration practices to support nervous system regulation and clarity

• A dedicated Private group forum for shared learning and reflection

• Guided individual focus sessions within the group

• Session recordings for flexible access

• Optional access to the Soul Punk Community

 

Enrollment Options

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You may choose the level of support that best fits your needs and circumstances.

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Core Group Experience

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• $1,997 Paid in Full
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• $699 Monthly installments
   

This option includes the full twelve week group experience and all materials listed above.

 

Group Experience

with Private Advisory Sessions

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• $2,490 Paid in Full
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• $875 Monthly Installments
   

This option includes everything in the group experience,

plus two private one-on-one sessions with Del Ray for more individualized guidance

and integration.

 

Enrollment and Access

Space is intentionally limited to maintain the integrity of the group and ensure

a focused, supportive experience for all participants.

Choose the option that aligns best with the level of support you want as you move through this season of change.

 

RISK REVERSAL AND REASSURANCE = 30 MONEY BACK GUARENTEE

 

Frequently Asked Questions

 

Is this therapy?
No. This is an educational and experiential coaching framework, not therapy or clinical treatment. Many people participate alongside therapy.

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Do I need to be in crisis?
No. This work supports both major upheaval and quieter life transitions where clarity feels unavailable.

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What kinds of transitions does this support?
Career changes, relationship shifts, health challenges, family upheaval, burnout, identity changes, and periods of uncertainty.

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How much time does it take each week?
One live weekly 1.5 hour-session, with  self-paced workbook and practices throughout the week.

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What if I miss a session?
All sessions are recorded and available for replay.

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Is this spiritual or religious?
No religious beliefs are required. The work is grounded, practical, and accessible to all backgrounds.

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How is this different from other programs?
Instead of fixing or pushing, this method helps you understand where you are so you can respond with clarity rather than force.

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Is my participation confidential?
Yes. The group is professionally held with clear boundaries and respect for privacy.

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What if it’s not the right fit?
You’re covered by a 30-day money-back guarantee.

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Which enrollment option should I choose?
Choose the core experience for group support, or the advisory option if you want additional one-to-one guidance.

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